Who are you?
if you are crossing the border, the city, or just crossing the street, the first question about any person in mind when they come in contact with you is: "Who are you?". They want to know who you are, so they can know how to communicate with the person before them now. If you are a cop they will respond differently than if you are a salesperson. If you are a lawyer, you May not get the same conversation as a farmer or a preacher. How do you interact with others is largely related to who you are.
the question really should be only on the surface will be of great importance. If you want your marriage to be the other way than it is now, you really need to internalize pitanje.Način to answer that question for yourself can make all the difference in the world on their relationship.
Who are you?
If your answer is that is that you are a teacher, a jet pilot, or an accountant, then your focus will be on the things that make you successful in this field of expertise. You've probably seen those things as fundamentally important that you spend not only their time and physical strength, but also how you spend your emotional energy. Of course, it is vital that you spend a lot of effort into their profession and improve yourself in your chosen trade. However, if you want to improve the likelihood of success in marriage would challenge you to take a slightly different approach.
How would you change your focus and priorities in life, if you really believed you were above all a child and a servant of God? Would it make a difference in the way they treat those that interact with every day? Would it make a difference in the way they treat your spouse and children? I think that if you follow his example of love and forgiveness.
How would it change your marriage, if you answered "Who are you?" with "I love a spouse"? Well, if they are just empty words, then it probably does not make much difference at all. But if you put the same energy and commitment that it is true that you can put into your work, then it could make a world of difference.
If your relationship is the foundation of its existence, then this is what will determine, and this is what you will excel in. Too often in our society, people put their jobs before anything else. They let their work or sometimes even your hobbies define who they are. They are so caught up in chasing the dream of a larger boat or car or better a stronger position, they do not have the time or energy to invest in their odnosima.Rezultat the broken homes, neglected spouses, children and depressed.
Do not let that happen to you and your family. Put as much study in learning how to be a better husband, as they put into learning how to be a better teacher. Hone your skills as a loving partner just as you would to improve your skills as a jet pilot. Pay attention to detail in making your marriage better as a bookkeeper to work on numbers in the book.
You see, marriage is actually better to start in the mind first. You can not change who your husband is, but you can make up your mind to improve. Start by honestly answering the question: "Who are you ?".
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